One young academically excellent person went for an interview for a
managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview; BUT
in that Company, the director did the last interview, and made the
final decision.
The director discovered from the CV, that the
youth’s academic result was excellent all the way, from the secondary
school until the postgraduate research, never was there a year he did
not score.
The director asked, “Did you obtain any scholarship
in school?” and the youth answered “no”. The director asked,” Did your
father pay your school fees?”. The youth answered, “my father passed
away when I was one year old and it was my mother who paid my school
fees”.
The director asked, ” Where did your mother work?” The
youth answered, “my mother worked as cloth cleaner.” The director
requested the youth to show his hands and the youth showed a pair of
hands that was smooth and perfect to the director.
The
director asked, ” Did you ever help your mother wash clothes before?”
The youth answered,” never, my mother always wanted me to study and read
more books, furthermore, my mother could wash clothes faster than I
could”
The director said, I have a request, when you go back
today, go and help to clean your mother’s hand, and then see me tomorrow
morning. The youth felt that the chance of landing the job was high and
when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother’s hands.
His mother felt strange. With happiness mixed with fear, she showed her
hands to the kid. The youth cleaned his mother’s hands slowly and his
tears fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his
mother’s hands were so wrinkled, and that there were so many bruises in
her hands.
Some bruises were so painful that she shuddered
when his mother’s hands were cleaned with water. This is the first time
that the youth realized and experienced that it is this pair of hands
that washed the clothes every day to earn him the school fees and that
the bruises in the mother’s hand were the price that the mother paid for
his graduation and academic excellence and probably his future.
After finishing the cleaning of his mother’s hands, the youth quietly
washed all the remaining clothes for his mother. That night, the mother
and son talked for a very long time.
Next morning, the youth
went to the director’s office. The director noticed the tear in the
youth’s eye and asked: ” Can you tell me what you did and learned
yesterday in your house?” The youth answered, ” I cleaned my mother’s
hands and also finished washing all the remaining clothes.’
The director asked, ”Please tell me what you felt.” The youth said:
“Number 1, I know what appreciation is now’. Without my mother, I would
not be successful today. Number 2, Now I know how to work together with
my mother. Only now do I realize how difficult and tough it is to get
something done. Number 3, I know the importance and value of family
relationship.”
The director said, “This is what I want. I want
to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of others, a person
who knows the suffering of others to get things done, and a person that
would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are
hired.”
Later on, this young person worked very hard, and
received the respect of his subordinates, every employee worked
diligently and as a team and the company improved tremendously.
